It started on October 18th, my friend needing the liver transplant called, he was sick. So, I took him to the emergency room. 12 hours later, he's been admitted and is settled in a room. I go to visit at lunch the next day, and he is throwing up into a trash can while the nurse is telling him he is being dismissed. I knew something was wrong and they just weren't seeing it. So, I called his transplant coordinator who told us to get him to Emory.
So, off we go to Emory. About 2 am, they tell us they are keeping him, and I head for home. It's about a 2 hour drive, so I crawled into bed at 4 am.
It's now Thursday. I go to visit my friend who is in a battle with a horrible disease. So glad to get the chance to see her for a little while. She was feeling like crap, but at least we had the chance to visit for a little while.
Friday night, the other friend is getting dismissed, so we get his mom and head out for Atlanta. As soon as we got there, they tell us they just readmitted him. So, we leave to get something to eat while his mom visits with him. We found a great little restaurant near the hospital and had a really good meal.
Turns out the friend has a partial bowel obstruction.
Saturday, we had a family get together for Chris's dad's birthday, then off to a party with the car club who held the benefit for my friend.
Sunday, I go to Emory to spend a few hours with him.
Monday, it's back to work.
Tuesday, he's having a really difficult time. I go home and pack a small overnight bag and head for Emory. I spend the night in a reclining chair so I can be there when the doctor rounds the next morning. Once I have the chance to talk to them, and get him showered and settled, I head to home to get a shower and go to work.
I worked late on Wednesday to try to get caught up on a few things.
Thursday Chris had a procedure, once that was finished, I went to work.
My other friend gets admitted to the hospital for a blood transfusion, so I go and spend some time with her.
Friday, the friend at Emory gets dismissed, so we head to Atlanta to pick him up.
I fell into bed as soon as I got home.
Chris says I'm not allowed to go anywhere today. He says I need a day to be a couch potato. He's right. So, I'm sitting on the sofa, recounting this week.
We saw a lot of nurses this week, some of them went above and beyond and made some differences small and large. Some of them, were sour and did the minimal amount they had to. Sometimes nurses can't do anything to correct a medical problem, but they can show kindness and offer a caring touch. For those who did provide that, I'm very thankful. I wish I could remember all of their names, but the ones that stand out are Adrienne, Darlene and Lynn.
I am tired.
But, I am home, I am being a couch potato. I just wish my two friends could be doing the same instead of fighting the tough battles that they are facing.